Sylvia Jane (Carver) Graves-Jacobsen, 87, of Wabash County, Indiana, passed away at 1:15 a.m., on Tuesday, January 20, 2026, at Wellbrooke of Wabash in Wabash, Indiana with her family by her side. She was born on February 4, 1938, to Herbert and Burie (Meyer) Carver in Wabash County, Indiana.
Sylvia was a 1956 graduate of Urbana High School. She was married to Edward Gerald Graves, Jr. for 28 years; he passed away in 1986. She then married Benhart T. Jacobsen on June 27, 1987. They were married for 36 years before his passing on August 6, 2023. Sylvia was a lifetime member of Wabash Church of Christ. She worked in the office at Cyclone Seeder in Urbana, and also as a cashier at Clark's Grocery. Sylvia spent time at the Wabash Carnegie Library helping others learn to read. She enjoyed going to garage sales, sewing, quilting, and painting. Sylvia loved to play cards and sing at church, especially solo. Most of all, she loved her family and they were her entire life.
Sylvia is survived by two sons, Timothy (Christina) Graves of Wabash, Indiana, and Tony Graves of Plymouth, Indiana; four daughters, Tena (Alan) McMullen of Fort Wayne, Indiana, Tammy Kirby of Quincy, Michigan, Trudy (Daniel) Boone of Wabash, Indiana, and Carrie Graves of Phoenix, Arizona; 21 grandchildren; 31 great-grandchildren; 6 great great-grandchildren; sisters, Norma McVicker, Ruby Gaston, and Hilda Speicher, all of Wabash, Indiana; and several nieces and nephews. She was preceded in death by her parents, both husbands, 4 brothers, 2 sisters, 1 angel grandchild, 2 angel great-grandchildren, and 2 great great angels.
Funeral service will be held at 1:00 p.m. on Saturday, January 24, 2026, at Wabash Church of Christ, 1904 N. Wabash St., Wabash, Indiana 46992 with Pastor David Fincher officiating. Burial will follow at Friends Cemetery in Wabash, Indiana.
Visitation for family and friends will be two hours prior to the funeral service on Saturday, January 24, 2026, from 11:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m. at the church.
Preferred memorials may be made to the Wabash Church of Christ, 1904 N. Wabash St., Wabash, Indiana 46992.
McDonald Funeral Homes, Wabash Chapel, 231 Falls Avenue, Wabash, Indiana 46992, have been trusted with Sylvia Jane (Carver) Graves-Jacobsen's final arrangements.
Online condolences may be sent to the family at www.mcdonaldfunerals.com